If you seek love, forget about how to make
him fall in love with you. Forget about Mars and Venus, in the real
world we are all human beings first, men and women second. Most singles
over 50 want to love and belong. Wear what makes you feel like a
million dollar babe, not what you think impresses him.
While romance is exciting, it is eroded over
time by the increasing intrusion of real life and the need to work, pay
the bills, and even the fact that your lover begins to lose that
mystique as you really get to know them up close and personal.
Esther Howland died in 1904 at a venerable
76 years of age, and
despite having brought love and joy into the world of
women as “the mother of the modern Valentine’s Day Card,” she never
married and went to her grave a millionairess spinster.
There is a big difference between
women going through menopause and men
going through midlife crisis: women are more prepared. Men
don’t understand what they are going through and why
they feel the way they do.
they romantic, family or work-related, relationships are subject to
power struggles. We struggle to dominate the relationship wanting to
impose our views and beliefs on others. Resident Relationships advisor,
Allie Ochs, explains what we can all do to survive!
are many different types of mothers: young and old mothers,
single or married mothers, mothers-in-law and stepmothers, ill or
deceased mothers, close-by or far-away mothers, funny or serious
been asked out...or done the asking out. Either way you're going on that
date. The first date. The grand opening of what could blossom into a
relationship without par, a soul mate to change your life forever! But
there are many pot holes and pit falls when it comes
to dating, and Claire Bertolus looks at a
number etiquette tips that will hopefully reduce the stress
levels of the dreaded first date.
There is quite a
difference between aiming
for a successful
life or relationship and trying to achieve perfection, as Allie Ochs
explains. Contrary to popular belief, perfection is not required to
succeed in love and life. In fact, the perfectionism-trap has serious
negative consequences. More articles:Dating At 40 Plus Just Gets
Better |Loving Without
and Tamara have been answering your questions for many years at Web
Wombat, but this new column is easily one of the most polarising of any
of the letters they've responded to. It addresses the issue of
swinging, or sharing sexual partners. For some, this can add spice to
intimacy in relationships that were once stale, by bringing
people in your sex lives with your partner. But it can also be a
relationship destroyer, often the catalyst for extreme jealousy and the
cause of any number of negative feelings. More
the Kids | Women
ultimately means being a step
away from being a parent.
Even if you have no intention of parenting, at the very least you are
expected to step in when the real parent is absent. Like it or not, in
a blended family you will do some parenting.
We've all experienced
heartbreak at some
stage in our lives, from
your childhood crush on the cute young blonde in primary
to your first true love just out of high school. But how do we
cope with these problems when at times
feels like no one can help?
For the majority of
having sex is not equal to making love. The
prevailing attitude in our society is: let there be sex at the end of
the tunnel, I don’t care about the light! Yet, for most
women, there is
a profound difference between just having sex and making love. Allie
Ochs explains. More
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